That Three Things

There are three things that you can’t take or have back. They are words, action and time. Once you’ve said or done something, you can’t undo it. Some people that you may have hurt from your words and/or action may forgive you but they might not be able to forget it. Depends on how big it is; the bigger the matter the harder it is to forget or in some case it may not be ever forgotten.

Time is one of the most precious thing, once you have missed something, then that’s it you just missed it. Once you wasted it, that’s it you can’t have more than that. Time is the reason why you can’t undo or redo your action or words. Because you can’t turn back time, not even the wealthiest person on earth. That’s a fact you can’t deny. So, cherish every moment you have. 

*credit to my friend EAH*

Deserve

"You don't deserve me, I don't deserve you" 

Popular saying?!

What do we really deserve? We never really deserve anything. You know, sometimes its just in our mind. We're the one who set ourselves what we "deserve" according to individual's criteria, satisfactory level, paradigm - its just about oneself. Paradigm leads to perception, perception leads to emotion (our emotional reaction towards something) -The shack, William P. Young-.

Life is full of choices, whether you want to be happy or you want to keep chasing what you "deserve". You want something, you work hard. If you don't get what you have expected then that is not meant to be for you. You'd think... "I have worked really hard and I deserve it" and it came from your mind. Only God who knows the real truth, so just give him whatever you have and He'll work things out for you coz He knows what's best for you, just trust him and He'll lead you to the right path. Well, this doesn't mean that you just give up on your dreams, God knows what you really want and He'll give you the best, He needs to see your effort too :) 

Happy New Year

Well, today is the 4th of January.. but hopefully its not too late to say HAPPY NEW YEAR. I know im not a good blogger, i don't even advertise my blog so that people can read, so only a few people know about this blog. Anyway, I could'nt blog on the 31st of Dec or 1st of Jan because I stayed over at the hospital accompanying my mum who just had an operation.

At that time, when 2011 has just ended, i wanted to write so much so I typed it in my phone so I can copy paste it here :)

01-01-2012

2011 December, my family is reunited, no one is missing, we even have our old maid back working with us. For this new year celebration (although mum and dad doesnt really celebrate new year) I was expecting this complete family to be together hugging each other after we did our countdown. But here I am with my brother accompanying mum in the hospital, while dad, eldest sis and lil sis went home. I am now watching the fireworks from the hospital window while remembering other new year activities that I did during the past few years that I can remember.

For me, many thing happened during 2011. It leaves me with lots of memories, some sweet and some bitter. However, through it all there is not even a second I spent, without great blessing and love from God. I am standing right here, right now, getting ready to step into 2012. A new year with new great journeys, overflowing blessings, love, happiness, success, and may God add more wisdom to me and all my beloved ones :)

Good bye 2011 and welcome 2012 :) It's going to be an awesome year!